The Music of Icicles
Sunday, January 13, 2013
This afternoon Kendell and I drove out to my mom's house so we could take her Christmas lights down for her. Hers is the only house that Kendell will deign putting icicle lights on, as he hates hanging them, the tangling and the shorting out, but when we pulled into her driveway I was enchanted for a moment: her icicle lights were spiked through with real icicles.
As Kendell likes to remind me when I complain, our usual lack of icicles is simply proof that our gutters work like they are supposed to. We almost never have icicles on our house, except for a tiny one every now and then during extra-cold winters. This year, however, has been extremely cold. And we received 12" of snow on the day after Christmas, and then an icicle grew, on the corner of my house where the garage meets the front porch. It grew longer, and thicker; it grew a few spurs and became a tentacled, twisted glorious thing, and when I would admire the icicles on other houses, my own made me feel less winsome.
They spark a sort of delicious shiveriness for me, icicles. I see them hanging and the urge to knock them off is nearly irresistible, and yet I want them to stay and grow. They are beautiful, violent things, temporary and vulnerable to sun and yet glitter so appealingly in its light.
Mine stayed, and grew; it stayed despite my boys’ repeated beggings to knock it down; it stayed until a warm day last week, when the sky got blue again (real, smog-free blue) and the cold broke a little, and it fell when no one was around to witness it.
But my mom’s icicles hadn’t fallen. They lined the line of her roof, thick and sturdy, delicate and fragile, an entire gallery of ice artwork.
But to take down her icicles we had to knock down her icicles.
I stood under the eaves, roping the lengths of icicle lights as Kendell unhooked them, looking at the icicles before he knocked them down. Dad would love these, I couldn’t help thinking, and then his brother, who lives a mile or so up the road, drove past in the car that was Dad’s, back when he could still drive without getting lost, and he waved and I thought Roe would like them, too, and I caught myself up in the mythology of the Allman heritage, how we are, because our father’s father was an artist, the kind of people who notice things like the shape of an icicle, how it is ridged or carved or fantastical, how that is a part of who we are and so maybe because I noticed the icicles and Dad would’ve noticed the icicles, would've noted their form and the way their color changes depending on where the sun is, and the perfect image one can find, standing behind a veil of icicles, with naked trees still holding snow and the blue sky beyond—because he would’ve seen his own version of that image, it was a sort of solace; it didn’t bring him back but it made him come back to me there, anyway, listening to the icicles fall. It makes a sort of music, cracking from the eave, a beautiful protest, each icicle before it impales itself through snow into frozen soil, an arpeggio that is remarkably like grief, like loneliness, like the shadow of a person passing through you.
Once again, an eloquent, beautiful post. I love your writing, Amy. Can't wait to see a collection of your essays in print. It's gotta happen some day!
Posted by: Wendy | Monday, January 14, 2013 at 06:22 AM
Beautifully written!!! I can just close my eyes and see them.
Posted by: Stephanie W | Monday, January 14, 2013 at 10:08 AM
Lovely post. My dad was an artist (tho not by profession) and it's in our blood too, so I understand when you talk about noticing the shape and the color and the design, etc. of icicles. I sometimes try to photograph them but don't have a lot of luck (yet). Kendell helped my roommate, Ruth put up icicle lights on our house just before Christmas (when I was gone on vacation). Knowing now that he hates to do it makes me feel even more gratitude to him for his kind service. It really meant a lot to Ruth!
Posted by: Judy | Monday, January 14, 2013 at 01:33 PM
Lovely icicles. We don't see them here much in the temperate Pacific Northwest, but I did see something that had me hunched down on the rare frozen ground last week. These strange icicle-shaped creatures were rising up out of the dirt. Thin, short spiky fellows who clustered together and shattered when I clutched at them. I headed to Google to figure out this mystery. Thank you Key Word knowledge and Images. They were called Ice Needles. Very cool indeed!
Posted by: Julie | Wednesday, January 16, 2013 at 05:54 PM